Every Wednesday, I ask Armani a few questions from Spiritual Mechanic readers.
Armani is the collective consciousness of some non-physical peeps who love vibration and the law of attraction.
Read on to see questions from Spiritual Mechanic readers followed by Armani’s responses.
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Hi Armani,
I, like many others, feel stuck in a holding pattern of relationships that aren’t right for me. I am very self aware and am trying to break free of the old and bring on something new and great. I want to manifest a relationship that will be my partner, or will lead me there, but my self doubt and negative thoughts about men have made that hard.
Would love any advice…
Thank you,
Lauren
We commend you for allowing this contrast to filter through your awareness rather than stuffing it down or avoiding it (a past pattern, as we see.)
We recommend that you treat yourself with immense kindness as you shift through this old pattern and align with that which you truly want. You are worthy of a radiant relationship, full of support and free from past patterns.
Your vibration lets you know when a relationship isn’t in alignment with what you truly want. This pattern has come up because you have been insensitive towards your own needs and desires in relationship with men. Your antidote is to instead be fiercely loyal to your own desires and needs. The right man for you will always support you having what you want.
Give yourself permission to want exactly what you want with no compromise on you feeling good, and with the same intensity, give him the same grace. This will re-align the focus and point of attraction so that you can manifest a deeply fulfilling relationship.
~Armani
I took a big step last week and spoke at a conference to rave reviews. I feel super good about that and I also feel a little down and some pressure around what to do next, how to capitalize on it, don’t want to “drop the ball” so to speak but I’m not feeling clear at all which is not what I expected. I also now have a bit of a throat/cough issue going on, thinking this is energetically related. Help! Thanks!!!
Lynayn M.
Ah, yes, humans are fascinating in their perceived dependency on time. We encourage you to realize that time is an illusion. While planning may feel good and allow you to align with your desires, you would be best served by honoring what the individual moment is asking for. Any planning or shifts that might happen will happen in the present moment. Any rest, relaxation and rejuvenation that is required will be asked for in the present moment.
If you honor what feels best in any given moment, you will find that you are able to move through these growth spells with more ease and grace. We encourage you to focus on what this moment asks for, as that will allow you to pave the perfect path for you.
~Armani
I’m an intuitive healer and I’ve built my platform around my past struggles with depression and mental illness, with the desire to help others learn to navigate their emotions and heal their emotional pain. It’s a beautiful, empowering message, and it is sorely needed at this time.
But … I just don’t wanna do it anymore. It’s too small, too one-at-a-time.
And I’m ready for a different clientele, a more impassioned, up-and-coming group who have the drive and desire (and bank account) to do the work to make massive change. In theory I’m OK with making this big shift, but something feels off … conflicted. Is it just guilt? Because I SHOULD want to help people who struggled like I did? Because that’s what Healers do? And because it’s somehow of a lesser integrity to want to work with those who already have the resources to help themselves?
I don’t know.
So many issues of culture and social inequality are clouding my vision and I can’t see through this. Complicating matters is the fact that today I’m attending the first meeting of a local networking group I’ve been invited to attend. I’ve been asked to join as the group’s emotional wellness expert, which I accepted with a flourish.
But now, if I don’t really want to stand on that platform, what the hell am I doing? And what the hell IS my platform if I’m not basing it on my life’s story anymore? Uggghhhhh ……..
I know from the outside this isn’t a big problem, but I’m inside and I feel like I’m on fire. How can I be who I am destined to be if I want to run away from my core story? Is it still a “spiritual mission” if I don’t want to work with the downtrodden anymore and instead only want to work with people who are already on their way up? Is this all just so “Goop”y of me? I can’t see my way out of this.
THANK YOU, Armani, and thank you EA. This is EXACTLY what I need right now. Hoping it works out.
Lindsay M.
Our message to you is that it is safe to have new, exciting desires and to abandon the ones that no longer feel good or resonate. Life is all about the process of self-discovery, creating desires, then creating new desires based on contrast from previous desires and other interactions. If it is enjoyable to use your life story to create a new story, go for it! If it feels enjoyable to create a new story free of the old one, trust that enjoyment!
Discovery is a process, so allow yourself to continue to discover what it is that you enjoy on your beautiful new platform. You wouldn’t be called to it unless it would be uplifting your both yourself and all involved.
~Armani
Armani: Despite knowing many practices that would help me (walking more in nature, starting a gratitude journal, etc.), I find myself not engaging in them, even resisting doing them, in a “you can’t make me”, childish kind of way. Can you suggest some reasons for my underlying self-sabotage and some ideas for how to allow myself to do the things I know will benefit me?
Thank you!
Allison M.
Your inner child is asking to be heard, listened to and empathized with. While you are an adult, at one point you were also that child who feels she does not have full permission to be happy. We recommend you speak with that child and listen to her concerns, her anger, her frustrations. She needs a listening ear.
Second, your energy responds best to intense gentleness. Resistance will only increase as you try to “force” yourself to do what’s “best” for you. Instead, welcome the resistance like a friend and honor the needs of the moment. You’ll find as you are gentler and more compassionate, you will find less resistance and will be naturally drawn to the ideal practices for you.
~Armani
Hello Rev Kerti and Armani,
I feel really stuck, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve taken psychic-mediumship training, shamanism courses and many other modalities and I need to know what to do next or what my block is and/or how to clear it so I can move forward in my life. I can’t figure out if I should stick to becoming a shaman and do healings or if I just incarnated to come and take lots of courses in order to use this knowledge for my next incarnation. I also have a block around money.
Love & Light,
Anne-Marie L.
What do you want to do?
When you get quiet and let go of all the distractions, shoulds, musts and have-tos, what is it that you want?
Get in touch with what you really want, then allow yourself to take aligned action with that.
For you, we recommend using your shamanic training to tap into possible future outcomes or simply meditating and welcoming those outcomes up.
See which ones feel good – notice the vibration.
The more you release the shoulds, musts and have-tos, the more easily you’ll identify what you want as well as grant yourself permission to pursue it.
~Armani
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I love this feature! How powerful to read their answers to universal/relatable issues. Thanks for doing this!