Every Wednesday, I ask Armani a few questions from Spiritual Mechanic readers.
Armani is the collective consciousness of some non-physical peeps who love vibration and the law of attraction.
Read on to see questions from Spiritual Mechanic readers followed by Armani’s responses.
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Dear Armani,
I have been working on aligning myself for a relationship for a very long time.
I really agree with those that say the best way to align yourself is not just to stuff any negative feelings down below the surface and force yourself to be at a high vibration all the time, so I have worked very hard on identifying any resistance or blocks, and really changing any limiting beliefs.
I have been in therapy for seven years, and have been studying the Law of Attraction and meditation intensely.
I have worked on facing my fears — the fear that I’m not good enough, the fear of rejection, the fear of heartbreak left from past failed relationships. I am not afraid of being alone either.
I am very successful in all other aspects and have a very good life.
But nothing is happening.
Not for years. Yes, years.
I have heard many people say you have to believe the Law of Attraction works in order for it to work, let go of attachment to the outcome, and live as if you already have the thing that you want to manifest — but how do I (or any of us) keep believing when nothing is happening?
I’m really grateful for any guidance you can give,
Angela
You have done wonderful “work” (play) in aligning to relationships and clearing out past emotional clutter or past beliefs is absolutely essential to co-creating a deeply rewarding relationship.
To answer your question of what to do when nothing is happening, it’s about releasing, aligning, allowing.
Allowing often includes action steps. Once you are aligned, the second step is to take aligned action. What actions are you feeling called to? Who do you want to be in the romantic relationship? Honor the calls to action that you feel pulled towards and you can much more easily find love.
If nothing seems to be happening and the intuitive nudges appear to be falling flat, simply gently ask “what am I not seeing?” Sometimes there are unseen opportunities, or an unseen belief that is sabotaging the creation, or it could be a period of waiting. Honor what feels true to you.
~Armani
Hi Erin-Ashley & Armani,
Thank you for what you are doing! So beautiful!
My question is about releasing very mixed messages about wealth from my childhood.
I am ready to attract wealth doing things I love and enjoy and I’m taking steps forward and enjoying myself, but I’m also aware of thought/belief habits about not being worthy, spending more than I earn and also being a bit too eccentric to make “proper” money.
How do I release this? Any suggestions?
Thank you!
Love,
Light,
Meredith
We are so pleased you are taking steps forward and enjoying yourself! That is a true key to success in life — enjoying being you.
We suggest being gentle and compassionate with yourself as you step into your worthiness. When patterns have been around for a long time, it is easy to feel hard on oneself as you learn to release it. Instead, welcome your truth up (that you are wholly worthy) and honor that sometimes you do not feel that way. Your truth is not diminished and you can be compassionate towards the scared child within you that is fearful she is not enough. Reassure her.
When you notice sabotage arise, be compassionate with that aspect of yourself, as well. The deeper you can go into gentle compassion, the easier it will be to release those old beliefs and behaviors that no longer serve you.
~Armani
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I have suffered lack all my life and would so love to master how to succeed with my desire to write and earn a living from writing. I’ve tried all the suggestions to manifest the law of attraction into my life but for years there’s been no success. I so wish I knew the magic formula to win through.