(Almost) every Wednesday, I ask Armani a few questions from Spiritual Mechanic readers.
Armani is the collective consciousness of some non-physical peeps who love vibration and the law of attraction.
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Armani,
I’ve been deeply intrigued and troubled by some patterns I’ve noticed with my boyfriend JW. for the last three years around this time something happens that creates a huge eruption in the way we are doing things and we end of breaking up. It’s happening again, I’m losing interest in the relationship and more interested in my own pursuits that I have been putting off. I’m actually really happy with how my life has been going. It’s not fair to him but he seems to be holding on to this relationship although I know he’s not getting all he deserves. I think we are tangled and we try to break-up and always end up together (which we then think we have been through so much and should be together!). We live an hour away and I have no interest in living with him. If you have anything you could share, I’d be so incredibly thankful.
Erin
Dearest Erin,
We recommend looking at the most loving action you can take that would be for both of your highest good, health, wealth and happiness 10 years down the line. We see that in the moment neither of you wishes to hurt the other, which is lovely and honorable, however it seems that you are still adjusting to the longer term view – that 10 years down the line, you both will be better off if you make a clean break and gently release one another.
It is not that you do not love one another. You love one another deeply. It is that your love is short-sighted – what you are doing only lets you both avoid the pain of a breakup rather than truly honor one another’s paths.
It’s safe to let go.
It’s safe to love from afar.
If you choose to let go with love, you will find your highest good, health, wealth and happiness and JW is free to find his.
~Armani
Hi EA and Armani!
I’ve been having some intense experiences while meditating lately. I will sometimes get this spinny sensation where it feels like I am about to “lose control” (or something like that, I can’t really explain). It’s almost like the feeling of falling asleep. My body starts to breathe really slowly and as soon as I notice that, I gasp for air. It’s like I’m falling into a deep state of meditation, but I am afraid to completely let go.
I think I’m afraid of what will happen if I surrender into it. Do you have any advice as to what is going on here? And why I am so afraid to let go? Do I need to be worried about this?
Thanks so much for your guidance!
Katie P.
You are about to fully surrender to your meditative journey and receive insights that shift your perspective and open you in new ways. This is a beautiful place to be! We recommend you allow yourself the grace to surrender in your own time and know that you are safe. Keep up your meditation practice as you feel called to and honor your journey. If you release the desire to control your journey to surrender, you will find it easier to surrender. You do not need to force it.
~Armani
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